When there is an accent, it is called love. When there is no bitterness, it is called mercy. Mercy is equal; love is discriminatory. No matter how much I love you, if the other person doesn't love you, this won't work. But no matter what they say, no matter what they say or don't listen to, the mercy is that they're cute. Yoshiyoshi Onishi, Japan (Zazen Japanese Sanction Lecture, ``Great Law'' 55:9)